About John

I am grateful to be serving men as a retirement vocation. In my earlier life I was an IT project guy, married to a woman, father of two wonderful kids, and a leader in a fairly conservative church. The last decade has been a whirlwind of transformation – coming out, embracing an authentic erotic life, redefining my spirituality. Through the Body Electric School and studying Tantra, I have worked to integrate sexuality and spirit in my life, discovering how the wisdom and energy in our bodies can be resources for personal transformation and deep connections with other humans and with the divine. It’s so freeing to discover that I can be not only an intelligent and responsible and kind man, but an erotic being too – and that this combination is good!

When not serving as a sacred intimate, I enjoy time with friends, reading, lounging at the beach, road trips, and plenty of walking and biking as my urban transportation.

Specific Training for this Work:

Prior Education